About Cristi Comes

Warrior Mom. Wife. Writer. Advocate for mental health, suicide prevention, self care, self image and style. Technology and social media lover. Board of Directors, American Foundation for Suicide Prevention Washington State Chapter. Editorial Team Postpartum Progress.

Guardians of the Galaxy In Theaters {Review}

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Last week, we saw a sneak preview of Marvel's Guardians of the Galaxy in 3D. Before I launch into my thoughts about the film, I wanted to share the official synopsis. I didn't know anything about the comic or the story line before heading to the theater, and after seeing it I can say its not … [Read more...]

I’m Not a Bad Mom Because I Don’t Limit Screen Time

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This week's #notabadmom post is by me! If you'd like to guest post for this series and share you're own story of why you are not a bad mom, please check out details here. I'd love to hear from you. If you missed out on the last few weeks, check them out here: Not a Bad Mom I sometimes feel … [Read more...]

I’m Not a Bad Mom Because I Send My Son to Daycare When I’m Not Working

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Please welcome Kristen for this week's I'm Not a Bad Mom. If you would like to submit your own story, please check out info here. My husband and I both work full-time.  There is no way around that.  We have a mortgage, car loans, student loans, credit card debt...the list of expenses go on … [Read more...]

Planes: Fire & Rescue in Theaters Now {Review}

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The first Planes movie was good. We enjoyed it and Ronin loved it (and could watch it every day), but this new sequel Planes: Fire & Rescue now in theaters is really great. For me it was definitely even better than the first. OFFICIAL SYNOPSIS: “Planes: Fire & Rescue” is a new … [Read more...]

Kids of Summer Love Music {WestMusic Video Contest}

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Disclosure: This post is sponsored by WestMusic and their Kids of Summer Video Contest. My kids love music and dancing. From bitty babies they loved playing, singing and dancing to their their bongo drums, shakers and other little instruments. Ellie had so much fun in her music class as a baby and … [Read more...]

I’m Not a Bad Mom Because I Don’t Have Answers to the Big Questions

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Please welcome Meryl for this week's "I'm Not a Bad Mom" post. I can definitely relate to this one. If you'd like to contribute to this weekly Thursday series, please find more info here. It started with a fish.  A beta fish.  A dead beta fish. As is the case with many small animals, I'm not … [Read more...]

I’m Not a Bad Mom Because I Switched From Breastfeeding to Formula

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Please welcome Kendra to the blog today for the newly relaunched I'm Not a Bad Mom Series. This series will run weekly on Thursdays and if you'd like to submit a piece, please see details here.  My son was born in April of 2012. When I was pregnant, I was determined to do everything “right”. I … [Read more...]

Postpartum Progress: Kicking PPD Ass for 10 Years!

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Its easy to feel alone when you're in the midst of postpartum depression. Isolated, insecure, anxious, paranoid. You feel like something is fundamentally wrong with you...like no one in the world will understand...like no one will be able to help you. Its heartbreaking to be in that pit when you see … [Read more...]

Escape Into Outlander

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I've been somewhat depressed, and when I am, I read. I honestly don't know if its self care or a way for me to withdraw and escape. But I really love reading, and its a relatively new phenomenon. OK, not new exactly, but its only been something I've enjoyed in my adulthood. I credit my love of … [Read more...]

Planes: Fire and Rescue FREE Downloadable Activity Book

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We are very excited to see Planes: Fire and Rescue. Ronin is a bit obsessed with the original film Planes. He watches it all of the time, and truly I've always enjoyed it myself.  Spoiler Alert: It's great to see the nice guy finish first.  We're eagerly awaiting the new movie's flight into … [Read more...]

I’m Not a Bad Mom Reboot #notabadmom

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I used to have a weekly series "I'm Not A Bad Mom" in 2011/2012. I really liked it but fell out of doing it for various reasons, mostly because I was struggling at the time and stopped blogging for a bit. But I'm bringing it back. I'm Not a Bad Mom Reboot! We all get judged as parents for one … [Read more...]

Peach Berry Smoothies with Almond Milk

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A few years ago we had the kids tested for dietary intolerances at a naturopath. We were trying to figure out a few issues including Ronin's night terrors and skin issues. Both kids came back as intolerant to dairy and gluten, so we adjusted our lifestyle including switching from cow's milk (which … [Read more...]

Social Media Silence

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Yesterday both my mom and my friend Angel (who I met at last year's Overnight Walk, see pic) messaged me asking if I was OK. And I am...OK. I guess my last blog post about things I hate about mental illness and my "social media silence" as Angel put it were signs to them. I can feel a lack of … [Read more...]

10 Things I Hate About Mental Illness

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I'm not ashamed to have mental illness, but it does really suck to have it...for lots of reasons. Can you relate? I know I'm not alone here. So many things to contend with and fight against on a daily basis. There are days I want to scream, or cry, or maybe both. So what are 10 things I … [Read more...]

Spontaneous Combustion

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I always burn out after a big event. Sometimes I think of it as a hangover, but this year its definite burnout. So its taken me several days to write this. After months of fundraising and planning, last weekend was the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention Overnight Walk, bringing suicide … [Read more...]